Around this time of year, we often think about gratitude. A recent email from Jay Michaelson reminded me that we can also reflect on our struggles as a way of having perspective and even more deeply appreciating the now.

Indeed, we can use our past struggles as ways of celebrating the mundane. The normal. The absence of...as it may be.

For me, while I had a terrible night of sleep last night (my daughters' keep bringing home hacking sleep-interrupting colds), I remember having to exist like this every day back in the newborn phase of their lives. And I really do feel even more grateful that this is temporary.

Perhaps we remember our holidays in a more locked-down scenario so we can fully appreciate reopening our homes (if we have chosen to do so). Being so aware of the potential of illness, if we are feeling well, we can really savor our moment of health. Whatever it is for you, perhaps take a moment to celebrate the simplicity of the not-terrible in your right now.